Women in Islamic Mankind

1. The Patient:
The women who remains patient in all
circumstances and never whines moans and complains when some trouble or affliction hits her, she turn to Allah for help.

2. The Protector:
The women who Protect her husband wealth andher chastity when he is away from home. When he returns, she does not burden him with the day’s problem, but listen attentively to his need and does her best to take his tiredness away.

3. The Lover:
The women who adore her husband and craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her du’aa pour’s for her from the bottom of his heart.

4. The Do-Gooder:
The women who has an excellent reputation in society for being kind, caring and courteous to all. She is good with her neighbors, relatives and never backbite or display jealousy.

5. The Content:
The women who never Cast her eyes at material things and is content with ever little her husbands gives her. She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feed her, every clothe that he gifts her including the roof over hear head.She makes her gratefulness known to him in words and actions, and thus soothes her husband’s heart.

6. The Pious:
The women who spend much of her day in dikhr (Zikar), tilaawat-e Qur’an (Qur'an recitation) andSalah (Prayer) and her nights is praying Tahajjud and crying to Allah for forgiveness. She encourage her husband to give da’wah in his spare time.

7. The Sweet Smiler:
The women who smiles excessively especially when her husband is at home. She always talk gently that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never raises her voices while talking to her husband. If her husband is angry with her for some reason and shout her. She does not answer him back but maintains as dignified silence. When he has calm down, she offers him cool water and apologizes to him even if she wasn’t at fault.

7 Qualities We Wish Every Girlfriend Should Have!

No matter how much you love your girlfriend, there will always be something you'd wish was a little different about her. After all, the perfect girlfriend is hard to find. Here are the seven most desirable qualities that every man seeks in a girlfriend. You're a lucky man if your girl has most of these.

She Doesn't Nag

Man, girls can nag and how! Most girls have a temperament as sensitive as a 'touch-me-not'. The perfect girlfriend never overreacts on inconsequential things. She doesn't pick fights unless it is an issue that really bothers her.

She Doesn't Depend On You

Whether it is her financial stability or emotional strength, she is independent. She never suffocates her partner with too much dependency. Unlike many other girls, she doesn't mistake her boyfriend to be her guardian.

She Is Smart

It may take lesser effort to impress a dumb girl, but in the long run, every man wants to feel a deeper connection with his girlfriend. The ideal girlfriend is intelligent to have intellectual discussions with.

She Is Sexually Attractive

Sexual compatibility is as important in a relationship as love. She needs to be sexually active and exciting. A boring sex life only leads to a frustrated relationship. There is nothing like a woman who is aware of her sexuality and proud of it.

She Is Friendly

Not all girls are, you know. Most relationships turn ugly when the friendship between the partners fades away. A girl who is friendly by nature will not only make your life a lot easier, but will also befriend your best buddies easily. Imagine how great it would be if your girlfriend loved your friends as much as you did!

She Is Encouraging

Every man needs a girlfriend who makes him a better person. Finding a girl who helps you evolve is equal to striking gold.

She Lets You Be In Touch With Your Manly Side

Most women have an annoying habit of making their partners just like them. A woman letting her man be is a rare find. The perfect girlfriend would know where to take the lead and when to step back for you to do your job.

5 Foods That Make You Hungry

The idea of eating is to fill your stomach, right? But what if we say that some foods only pretend to do so? Every food doesn't have the satiating effect on your body. Let's say, some foods forget to signal the brain that you are full and you feelyou are hungry again. Here's a list of five such foods that you feel you are filling your belly with, but they actually leave you wanting for more.

Chinese Food

Ever wondered why you never seem to get enough of box of noodles and gravy? That's because Chinese food contains Monosodium Glutamate (MSG) that is added to enhance the flavour. This chemical is also responsible for raising your hunger levels. You tend to feel hungry in a span of an hour, compared with food that doesn't contain MSG and keeps you full for longer. According to studies, the culprit is the flavour that MSG adds to the food that makes you crave for more.

Bread

Perhaps the most common answer to hunger at any hour of the day at any given point is bread. But according to research, protein is known to fill your stomach better than carbs or fat. Refined carbohydrates, especially, are known to trigger food cravings. Blame it on the high fructose corn syrup in bread that causes your blood sugar levels to fluctuate and crave processed foods.

Alcohol

Unfortunately, this is a tricky situation. While eating is heavily recommended during your drinking sessions, the fact also remains that alcohol does make you hungrier. Research shows that people who drink also tend to consume additional 500 calories. Unless, of course, you drink to get so sozzled that you forget all about eating! Alcohol is known to enhance the taste buds where you prefer junk food over healthy food and also forget the consequences of indulging a bit too much.

Dark Chocolate

Know that feeling when just a piece of chocolate is never enough? Yes we all know that feeling. The truth is that both sweet as well salty snacks are very hard to put down. You can never have enough of them. Although, dark chocolate is good for your heart, the difficult part is to keep a check on the quantity you are eating. Also, the fact that dark chocolate contains fat is another reason why we tend to keep eating more.

Protein Shakes

If you keep your protein shakes light and
seemingly healthy by mixing the powder with water, chances are they are not doing you much good. Thinner shakes are never as satisfactory, and hence, they end up leaving you craving for more food to you're your stomach. Thicker, creamier shakes, such as those made with milk, are more likely to leave you satisfied.

What To Do When You Need A Break From Her

Yes, relationships today are complicated. You might love her, and feel all the nicest things about her. But there are times when you want to be alone, only for a few days if not more. We all need micro-breaks every now and then. Big deal. The problem arises when your girlfriend doesn't accept this, or you fear being called a di** by her friends when they come to know. Guys, first up, listen to this: It's hard to find someone worth loving, so try to be there for your girl at all times, even after a really awful day at work or, when Arsenal loses by 3-0. And if you still need that weekend off from your relationship, follow these simple tricks to avoid all the drama:

1. Get Busy

Work is the b**** most women can still accept in their partner's lives. So if you want some time off, get busy and immerse yourself in your work. When she calls, say you have some massive deadlines to keep up with. That way, you won't be a douche in her mind.

2. Be casual around her

No pampering, no mush, no sweet talk, just talk to her like you would to a normal friend. If she knows you, she'll know that you want to stay casual for a few days, and that you aren't exactly thrilled about having to make grand emotional allowances for your relationship.

3. No hanky panky business

When we say 'taking a break', we don't mean that you start applying all the tricks you learnt from The Player or Jersey Shore and hook up with whoever comes your way. In no circumstance, cheat on her emotionally or physically; because that's seriously something only immature and foolish guys do.

4. If you can't talk, text

Thank God for Whatsapp, now you stay in touch with people even without speaking on the phone. There are good days and bad days, and sometimes we don't feel like chatting up on the phone after coming home from a bad day at work, or after a fight with our parents. In that case, just text her something, so she knows she is, even though slightly, still on your mind.

5. Go to your bros

When else would your bros come in handy? Tired of spending every weekend with; called his friends one weekend, got wasted, and had the time of his life. Sometimes going back to the pack of wolves can really uplift your senses, and you can come back pumped and shift the energy to your relationship too.

Complimenting Your Girl: What To Say

Let’s get this one thing straight: All women love compliments and some even live for them. So no matter how cool an air your girl tries to give off, she is secretly dying to hear a few words of praise from you. Most of us men really suck when it comes to paying compliments to our lady loves. We just can’t seem to go beyond the “You are looking hot (or sexy, beautiful, gorgeous)” line. Agreed, it always works like a charm. But it’s restrictive as well. A girl wants you to love her for the person she is and not just for her looks. So here are a few seemingly innocuous (but really powerful) compliments that you can memorise and sprinkle your conversations with

"How was your day?"
She comes back from her place of work tired and dishevelled and wants to share her day with someone. By asking her how her day went, she would usually start from scratch and bore you to death with the little dramas that took place during the day. So be prepared to set aside some time to listen to her stories. And for heaven’s sake don’t keep fidgeting with the TV remote while she narrates her stories. "Wow, I can't believe how sexy you look!" Yes, you have used this a thousand times already, but if you are in a steady relationship chances are that you may have not used it for a while. If you want your girl to focus on how she looks, you must use this compliment to make her feel that you are still attracted to her body. Moreover, by letting her know that the l sight of her fine tight ass still gives you a hard on, you will actually make her more willing to share ass with you in bed.

"You're way more attractive than your
girlfriends."
Telling her that she looks prettier than all her other friends will give a huge boost to her ego and you will earn some great brownie points. Girls often feel secretly threatened by their gal pals, especially if they aren’t quite as pretty as their friends. So, this particular compliment will help her confidence. If you are able to make her feel good about herself, she too will want to reward your good taste.

"What do you think about [anything]?"
This innocent sounding question works wonders when it comes to women. Asking this question tells your lady that you genuinely feel that her opinion matters to you. It’s a fact that women love to express their feelings on every topic imaginable. Well, for your sake, choose the topics wisely or you will find yourself getting entangled in the web of a lengthy conversation which may soon turn into a debate or an argument.

"You're really smart."
One of the fastest ways of getting into your girl’s pants is by acknowledging her brains and her superior intelligence. If a girl is made to feel that you appreciate and cherish her for assets other than those that fit in a thong or a bra, you will have pulled of a near miracle of positioning yourself as more than a breast guy. Women love a cordial man, and there's no better way for you to show off your gentlemanly qualities than to praise and distinguish her smarts.

"You're awesome in bed”
Even if she sucks (not to be taken literally) in bed, if you praise her sex skills you will make her feel like a goddess. Whatever inhibitions she has in bed will fast evaporate if you can make her feel that she has all the skills of Jenna Jameson. Soon you will realise that she has started initiating sex more often and doesn’t freeze at the thought of going down on you.

"You're my best friend."
Telling your girl that you think of her as your best friend shows that you are capable of feeling above and beyond a sexual context. It also means you value her presence and like to spend time with her doing things that other men may not have had an interest in. She'll feel overpoweringly connected to you after you say this.

"I love you."
These "three little words" pack a whole lot of punch and if you're in a long-term relationship, it's good to say this every now and then. Saying this to a long-time partner will rekindle the sparks of love that can die if not fanned with effusions like these once a while. I bet you won't regret it when you see (and feel) her reaction. Now that you know exactly what to say to make her blush and feel as if she’s the most special woman in the world for you, go and do it! The rewards will follow soon.

Things Men Dread To Hear In A Relationship

There are certain things that a man just never wants to hear from his woman. The words may not always be harsh but it’s the meaning behind them that makes them so utterly fearsome. Mentioned below are the most formidable, most harrowing combination of expressions a female
can utter:

When she says: "I've been thinking... "

Sounds innocent but its not! If she says that she has been thinking, then it’s almost always about something which is seriously unpleasant. It either means she wants a commitment or a break-up. The phrase can, however, take a few interesting forms like “Do you still love me?” or "Have you ever thought about the future?"

When she says: "Be a man"

Ouch! Nothing can be quite as painful as having your very manhood questioned. So you can either quietly swallow her insult or hit back by saying "How about you be a woman and quit nagging?

When she says: "My parents would like to meet you"?

This just means one thing. You are about to have every inch of your life scrutinised by her parents. Well, if you have been seeing her for so long that her parents have shown an interest to meet up with you, just hope for the best.

When she says: "I have a headache"

It’s a polite way of telling you that you won’t be getting any action tonight. But you can easily beat her to it. So if you are really looking for some between-the-sheets session and she looks disinterested or tired, just offer her a crocin. If she says, "But I don't have a headache," give her a grin and do your thing.

When she says: "What are you thinking about ?"

Women can often act really pesky and curious. They want to read your mind and know exactly what you are thinking about every second of the day. So if you were indeed thinking of the hot chick next door, or replaying the hot Jenna Jameson flick that you saw last night, just look intelligent and tell her something smart.

When she says: "Do you think she’s pretty?"

She already caught you staring at the hottie that just passed you by, no matter how covert your glance was. If you lie and say no, she will catch you and an argument would ensue. So just be artful and imaginative. Say something like “Not
really, her ass is so huge”

When she says: "Do you notice anything different about me?"

Well, as long as she hasn’t undergone a boob job or coloured her hair red, chances are you will fail to notice any changes. And the longer you take to answer, the more frustrated she'll become. This will make you more frenzied to dig out the difference. And when you finally bellow, "Yes, of
course, you got a new haircut!" she will fling her tiny earrings on the ground, stomp out of theroom and won’t speak to your for the next several days.

When she says: "Do you know what’s the date today?"

Holy hell, you have managed to forget a date that she considers to be important. Whether it washer birthday, or your anniversary or the date ofyour first date or the day you two first met, these are dates that remains permanently etched in a girl’s memory. Since there is absolutely no way
out of this, it is better you memorise all these dates or at least mark them in your digital calendar.

When she says: "My friend is getting engaged / married"

She seems happy, sounds happy and everything’s seems blissfully normal when you suddenly catch a thinly veiled hint of disappointment in her voice. Its then you realise that she’s is trying to hint at her relationship with you which she feels is
stagnating. She expects a commitment and wants it fast.

When she says: "I am pregnant"

Well, with all the contraceptives around, if you still got her pregnant then you should go ahead and do the right thing… shoot yourself in the head. While no man likes to hear any of the aforementioned phrases, every man will, at some point, endure them. The best you can do is be prepared.

Calling Her for the First Time

Has this ever happened to you? You finally gathered the courage and asked you secret crush for her number, and tried calling her up the moment the next attack of bravado overtook you. But the moment you started dialling her number you freaked out and hung up. Or you did work up the nerve to call her up, got her on the phone, had a nice friendly conversation, but when the time came to ask her out, you froze up because you didn't know what to say? Hey don’t worry. Such things happen to the best of players (perhaps not the best). But there are several ways of making sure that you are able to ace the first phone call and get her to go out with you.
buzz her in the evening
Like the rest of us, she too has a life and a job. So calling her up in the morning or evening when she’s in her office slogging her ass off is not a good idea. Call her after eight when you can safely assume that she is back from office and before ten, so that you don’t interrupt her dinner. If she sounds busy or rushed ask her if you have caught her at the wrong time. If she says she’s busy, don’t ask her to call back, but instead ask when it would be better time to reach her.
call her from a place where you are comfortable
Make sure that when you call her you are feeling relaxed and comfortable. If there are other people in the room or there is loud music playing in the background, avoid making that call. Other people prying on your private conversation will only make you uncomfortable.
sound good
Women like their men to sound cool and
confident. So if you hate the way your voice sounds in the answering machine try training it to make it sound deeper and more resonant. Hum a tune with your mouth closed. This little trick is often used by public speakers to make their voice deeper and more sonorous.
call her while standing up.
When you stand up and talk you will notice that your voice will immediately sound deeper and thus more confident. Talk slowly and take your time with your words. You must have noticed that people who are nervous have a habit of talking really fast. If you feel that your mind will go blank the moment she picks up the phone, write out what you plan to say and read it to yourself a couple of times. If it sounds good to you then chances are that they would sound equally good to her as well.
engage in good small talk
Obviously before you get to the all important question It's but natural that you would make a bit of small talk. But steer clear of questions that border on the yawn-kingdom like the weather and politics. Avoid talking too much about yourself, and engage her in an interesting conversation by bringing up topics that are
relevant. TALK ABOUT HER. Girls love talk about themselves.
make her laugh
Humour is a quality that has always worked beautifully with girls. Try to drop a few jokes during the conversation to let her know that you have a sense of humour. But please try and use contextual humour and nothing that you got from the Santa-Banta website.
propose a specific date
Make sure exactly where you plan to take her, before you call. So be specific about a particular location and tell her exactly where you plan to take her. So be very clear about your plans. This would go to show the amount of thought you have put into making the plans, which will make it that much harder for her to say no.
hang up once you’ve secured the date
Don't feel obliged to extend the conversation once she has agreed to go out with you. The objective of the first phone call has been met so hang up a few minutes after she has given her consent. The less time you chat, the smaller the window to blurt out something stupid.
don't fall into the friendship trap
You probably have a lot of friends and don’t need any more. So be crystal clear about your intentions. You are interested in this woman romantically. So make sure she gets to know it. But if she just wants to hang out as friends, don’t start wailing over the phone and take up on her offer. If its meant to work out it will, so don’t spoil your chances by refusing to be her friend. Remember you are already through with the hard part – you have already got her number. Getting the courage to dial her number is really not half as difficult as getting the number because she is already expecting a call from you. So once you get her on the receiver’s end just follow these 8 great tips and bowl her with your natural charm.