Sunday, September 28, 2014

make-up tips for teenagers!

If you’re a young teen, all you really need is mascara and lip gloss. You can add in the eyeliner when you like- brown or even purple is great for everyday, while black is great for nights or weekends when you want that extra drama.
No foundation. Just a bit of concealer on your blemishes. Use your finger to apply, but make sure to wash your hands before touching your face. If you feel your skin is oily, use just a little bit of pressed powder with a sponge to apply and pat it just where you need it. Keep your makeup as minimum as possible, because your skin is more prone to acne breakouts. Try to keep it as much natural as possible. Always spend a little more money to use branded cosmetics instead of buying them from any local store.

Teenage Makeup step by step:

Step 1:
First make sure to clean your face of any oil or dirt with a face wash. Dab a little bit of toner to your skin and finish off with a moisturizer. Use a moisturizer with SPF as it will also act as a sunscreen.

Step 2:
Foundation is not needed for a teenage skin. So if you have to use one, take a very small amount and blend it thoroughly all over your face.

Step 3:
If you want to cover up any problem areas of your skin like blemishes, under eye circles or pimples, you may use a concealer. Choose one which matches your skin tone; otherwise it will look out of place. Take a very small amount and blend
it out with your finger.

*** Your finger tip is the best blender, you don’t need a brush.

Step 4:
Using powder or not is completely your choice. Those, with oily skin may use a bit of loose powder.

Step 5:
Blusher will make you look too made up. So you may skip out blusher or use one in peach or light pink (for fair skin) or brown (for dark skin) to give you that natural blush and happy look on your face. Use a thick, fluffy brush to apply blusher. Do not to use one during daytime; it is fine to use blusher for an evening party. You may also use shimmery blush for evenings. The choice is yours.

Step 6:
Do you need to do anything for those pretty eyes of yours? Nothing much, except for a s

ingle coat of mascara and a thin eyeliner, keeping it close to your lash line. This will give you a natural look.

Step 7:
Finally your lips. Lipsticks are a big no-no at this age. Use a pretty pink or neutral shaded lip gloss. You lips will really shine out enhancing your beauty.
Teenage makeup must be soft and simple which will enhance their natural features.

Thursday, May 1, 2014

10 Steps to Being A Better Wife

1) Take care of yourself turns out that the best thing you can do for your husband is also good for you. Eat healthy foods, maintain good grooming, and exercise regularly. You'll look and feel better, and you'll continue to be the vibrant and attractive woman he fell in love with, no matter your age.

2) Say thank you, often when researchers ask men what they want from their wives, appreciation always makes the list. Everyone likes to be appreciated, so remember to notice the things your husband does—for you, for the kids, for the house—and thank him. You'll put a smile on his face and a little joy in his heart.

3) Keep the romance alive when was the last time you planned a romantic interlude with your husband? If you can't remember, you're way overdue. Be affectionate, write love notes, plan a date, and never stop flirting him. Remind him that you still find him attractive.

4) Let him have "guy time" everyone needs time for themselves—to relax, enjoy a hobby, or socialize with friends. If your husband loves football and you don't, don’t bug him about it. Encourage him to cultivate friendships with other men. He'll enjoy the companionship. Studies show that people with friends tend to live longer, healthier lives.

5) Make your husband a priority with the everyday stresses of work, home, and kids, it's easy to take your husband for granted. Make time for the two of you to reconnect on a regular basis. Take an interest in his work and hobbies. Let him know he's important to you.

6) Don't try to change him are you outgoing, but your husband is shy? Do you like a clean house, but he leaves towels on the floor? Behavioral experts say you can't change others, you can only change yourself and how you react—so look for ways other than nagging to handle these situations. Compromise on social activities by making them shorter. Place a laundry basket in the bathroom. And when he attends a party or puts dirty towels in their proper place, thank him. Positive reinforcement beats nagging every time.

7) Don’t make him guess—tell him what you want. It's easy to assume that the person who lives with you every day also knows you well enough to know what you want. Not true. Most of us view the world through our own needs and desires, so don't be surprised if your husband thinks that what you want is what he would want. If you want something specific—advice, a hug, or a red sweater for your birthday—let him know.

8) Cultivate friends and interests outside your marriage. Once you’re married, it's easy to shrink your social network to revolve around your husband. But no one person can meet all your needs, and it’s too much to expect your husband to be your partner, and your best girlfriend. Make time for friendships outside your marriage. You'll have more fun and bring new energy to your relationship.

9) Let free time be free - Just as you need time to relax and unwind, so does your husband. He may not define it the way you do, though; while your idea of relaxing after work may be talking over a cup if coffee, he may enjoy being quiet for awhile, reading the newspaper, or watching TV. Find a compromise so both your needs are met. And give him time to recharge by not over-scheduling weekends with home projects and shopping.

10) Believe in your husband, and let him know it. Men can display a lot of bravado, but like us they sometimes struggle with low self-confidence and feelings of failure. And because men approach the world as competitors, they sometimes end up feeling like losers. When he comes home, your husband needs to know that the person he values most in the world believes in him—especially when he doesn't believe in himself.

Thursday, April 17, 2014

15 Things A Girl Wants From His Guy But Won't Ask For

1. Good morning/good night texts.

2. Pictures taken together.

3. Surprises, especially little ones.

4. Visiting & bringing her favorite food.

5. A hoodie with his scents all over it.

6. Really long hugs.

7. Slow dances.

8. Sincere compliments.

9. Singing her favorite song, even if it's out of tune.

10. A cute stuffed toy to hug when he's not around.

11. Real, deep conversations.

12. Nonsense but funny conversations too.

13. His "gentelmanliness."

14. Comfort and patience when she's in tears.

15. Telling her how much you love her.

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Women in Islamic Mankind

1. The Patient:
The women who remains patient in all
circumstances and never whines moans and complains when some trouble or affliction hits her, she turn to Allah for help.

2. The Protector:
The women who Protect her husband wealth andher chastity when he is away from home. When he returns, she does not burden him with the day’s problem, but listen attentively to his need and does her best to take his tiredness away.

3. The Lover:
The women who adore her husband and craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her du’aa pour’s for her from the bottom of his heart.

4. The Do-Gooder:
The women who has an excellent reputation in society for being kind, caring and courteous to all. She is good with her neighbors, relatives and never backbite or display jealousy.

5. The Content:
The women who never Cast her eyes at material things and is content with ever little her husbands gives her. She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feed her, every clothe that he gifts her including the roof over hear head.She makes her gratefulness known to him in words and actions, and thus soothes her husband’s heart.

6. The Pious:
The women who spend much of her day in dikhr (Zikar), tilaawat-e Qur’an (Qur'an recitation) andSalah (Prayer) and her nights is praying Tahajjud and crying to Allah for forgiveness. She encourage her husband to give da’wah in his spare time.

7. The Sweet Smiler:
The women who smiles excessively especially when her husband is at home. She always talk gently that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never raises her voices while talking to her husband. If her husband is angry with her for some reason and shout her. She does not answer him back but maintains as dignified silence. When he has calm down, she offers him cool water and apologizes to him even if she wasn’t at fault.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

7 Qualities We Wish Every Girlfriend Should Have!

No matter how much you love your girlfriend, there will always be something you'd wish was a little different about her. After all, the perfect girlfriend is hard to find. Here are the seven most desirable qualities that every man seeks in a girlfriend. You're a lucky man if your girl has most of these.

She Doesn't Nag

Man, girls can nag and how! Most girls have a temperament as sensitive as a 'touch-me-not'. The perfect girlfriend never overreacts on inconsequential things. She doesn't pick fights unless it is an issue that really bothers her.

She Doesn't Depend On You

Whether it is her financial stability or emotional strength, she is independent. She never suffocates her partner with too much dependency. Unlike many other girls, she doesn't mistake her boyfriend to be her guardian.

She Is Smart

It may take lesser effort to impress a dumb girl, but in the long run, every man wants to feel a deeper connection with his girlfriend. The ideal girlfriend is intelligent to have intellectual discussions with.

She Is Sexually Attractive

Sexual compatibility is as important in a relationship as love. She needs to be sexually active and exciting. A boring sex life only leads to a frustrated relationship. There is nothing like a woman who is aware of her sexuality and proud of it.

She Is Friendly

Not all girls are, you know. Most relationships turn ugly when the friendship between the partners fades away. A girl who is friendly by nature will not only make your life a lot easier, but will also befriend your best buddies easily. Imagine how great it would be if your girlfriend loved your friends as much as you did!

She Is Encouraging

Every man needs a girlfriend who makes him a better person. Finding a girl who helps you evolve is equal to striking gold.

She Lets You Be In Touch With Your Manly Side

Most women have an annoying habit of making their partners just like them. A woman letting her man be is a rare find. The perfect girlfriend would know where to take the lead and when to step back for you to do your job.

5 Foods That Make You Hungry

The idea of eating is to fill your stomach, right? But what if we say that some foods only pretend to do so? Every food doesn't have the satiating effect on your body. Let's say, some foods forget to signal the brain that you are full and you feelyou are hungry again. Here's a list of five such foods that you feel you are filling your belly with, but they actually leave you wanting for more.

Chinese Food

Ever wondered why you never seem to get enough of box of noodles and gravy? That's because Chinese food contains Monosodium Glutamate (MSG) that is added to enhance the flavour. This chemical is also responsible for raising your hunger levels. You tend to feel hungry in a span of an hour, compared with food that doesn't contain MSG and keeps you full for longer. According to studies, the culprit is the flavour that MSG adds to the food that makes you crave for more.

Bread

Perhaps the most common answer to hunger at any hour of the day at any given point is bread. But according to research, protein is known to fill your stomach better than carbs or fat. Refined carbohydrates, especially, are known to trigger food cravings. Blame it on the high fructose corn syrup in bread that causes your blood sugar levels to fluctuate and crave processed foods.

Alcohol

Unfortunately, this is a tricky situation. While eating is heavily recommended during your drinking sessions, the fact also remains that alcohol does make you hungrier. Research shows that people who drink also tend to consume additional 500 calories. Unless, of course, you drink to get so sozzled that you forget all about eating! Alcohol is known to enhance the taste buds where you prefer junk food over healthy food and also forget the consequences of indulging a bit too much.

Dark Chocolate

Know that feeling when just a piece of chocolate is never enough? Yes we all know that feeling. The truth is that both sweet as well salty snacks are very hard to put down. You can never have enough of them. Although, dark chocolate is good for your heart, the difficult part is to keep a check on the quantity you are eating. Also, the fact that dark chocolate contains fat is another reason why we tend to keep eating more.

Protein Shakes

If you keep your protein shakes light and
seemingly healthy by mixing the powder with water, chances are they are not doing you much good. Thinner shakes are never as satisfactory, and hence, they end up leaving you craving for more food to you're your stomach. Thicker, creamier shakes, such as those made with milk, are more likely to leave you satisfied.

What To Do When You Need A Break From Her

Yes, relationships today are complicated. You might love her, and feel all the nicest things about her. But there are times when you want to be alone, only for a few days if not more. We all need micro-breaks every now and then. Big deal. The problem arises when your girlfriend doesn't accept this, or you fear being called a di** by her friends when they come to know. Guys, first up, listen to this: It's hard to find someone worth loving, so try to be there for your girl at all times, even after a really awful day at work or, when Arsenal loses by 3-0. And if you still need that weekend off from your relationship, follow these simple tricks to avoid all the drama:

1. Get Busy

Work is the b**** most women can still accept in their partner's lives. So if you want some time off, get busy and immerse yourself in your work. When she calls, say you have some massive deadlines to keep up with. That way, you won't be a douche in her mind.

2. Be casual around her

No pampering, no mush, no sweet talk, just talk to her like you would to a normal friend. If she knows you, she'll know that you want to stay casual for a few days, and that you aren't exactly thrilled about having to make grand emotional allowances for your relationship.

3. No hanky panky business

When we say 'taking a break', we don't mean that you start applying all the tricks you learnt from The Player or Jersey Shore and hook up with whoever comes your way. In no circumstance, cheat on her emotionally or physically; because that's seriously something only immature and foolish guys do.

4. If you can't talk, text

Thank God for Whatsapp, now you stay in touch with people even without speaking on the phone. There are good days and bad days, and sometimes we don't feel like chatting up on the phone after coming home from a bad day at work, or after a fight with our parents. In that case, just text her something, so she knows she is, even though slightly, still on your mind.

5. Go to your bros

When else would your bros come in handy? Tired of spending every weekend with; called his friends one weekend, got wasted, and had the time of his life. Sometimes going back to the pack of wolves can really uplift your senses, and you can come back pumped and shift the energy to your relationship too.

Monday, March 10, 2014

Complimenting Your Girl: What To Say

Let’s get this one thing straight: All women love compliments and some even live for them. So no matter how cool an air your girl tries to give off, she is secretly dying to hear a few words of praise from you. Most of us men really suck when it comes to paying compliments to our lady loves. We just can’t seem to go beyond the “You are looking hot (or sexy, beautiful, gorgeous)” line. Agreed, it always works like a charm. But it’s restrictive as well. A girl wants you to love her for the person she is and not just for her looks. So here are a few seemingly innocuous (but really powerful) compliments that you can memorise and sprinkle your conversations with

"How was your day?"
She comes back from her place of work tired and dishevelled and wants to share her day with someone. By asking her how her day went, she would usually start from scratch and bore you to death with the little dramas that took place during the day. So be prepared to set aside some time to listen to her stories. And for heaven’s sake don’t keep fidgeting with the TV remote while she narrates her stories. "Wow, I can't believe how sexy you look!" Yes, you have used this a thousand times already, but if you are in a steady relationship chances are that you may have not used it for a while. If you want your girl to focus on how she looks, you must use this compliment to make her feel that you are still attracted to her body. Moreover, by letting her know that the l sight of her fine tight ass still gives you a hard on, you will actually make her more willing to share ass with you in bed.

"You're way more attractive than your
girlfriends."
Telling her that she looks prettier than all her other friends will give a huge boost to her ego and you will earn some great brownie points. Girls often feel secretly threatened by their gal pals, especially if they aren’t quite as pretty as their friends. So, this particular compliment will help her confidence. If you are able to make her feel good about herself, she too will want to reward your good taste.

"What do you think about [anything]?"
This innocent sounding question works wonders when it comes to women. Asking this question tells your lady that you genuinely feel that her opinion matters to you. It’s a fact that women love to express their feelings on every topic imaginable. Well, for your sake, choose the topics wisely or you will find yourself getting entangled in the web of a lengthy conversation which may soon turn into a debate or an argument.

"You're really smart."
One of the fastest ways of getting into your girl’s pants is by acknowledging her brains and her superior intelligence. If a girl is made to feel that you appreciate and cherish her for assets other than those that fit in a thong or a bra, you will have pulled of a near miracle of positioning yourself as more than a breast guy. Women love a cordial man, and there's no better way for you to show off your gentlemanly qualities than to praise and distinguish her smarts.

"You're awesome in bed”
Even if she sucks (not to be taken literally) in bed, if you praise her sex skills you will make her feel like a goddess. Whatever inhibitions she has in bed will fast evaporate if you can make her feel that she has all the skills of Jenna Jameson. Soon you will realise that she has started initiating sex more often and doesn’t freeze at the thought of going down on you.

"You're my best friend."
Telling your girl that you think of her as your best friend shows that you are capable of feeling above and beyond a sexual context. It also means you value her presence and like to spend time with her doing things that other men may not have had an interest in. She'll feel overpoweringly connected to you after you say this.

"I love you."
These "three little words" pack a whole lot of punch and if you're in a long-term relationship, it's good to say this every now and then. Saying this to a long-time partner will rekindle the sparks of love that can die if not fanned with effusions like these once a while. I bet you won't regret it when you see (and feel) her reaction. Now that you know exactly what to say to make her blush and feel as if she’s the most special woman in the world for you, go and do it! The rewards will follow soon.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Things Men Dread To Hear In A Relationship

There are certain things that a man just never wants to hear from his woman. The words may not always be harsh but it’s the meaning behind them that makes them so utterly fearsome. Mentioned below are the most formidable, most harrowing combination of expressions a female
can utter:

When she says: "I've been thinking... "

Sounds innocent but its not! If she says that she has been thinking, then it’s almost always about something which is seriously unpleasant. It either means she wants a commitment or a break-up. The phrase can, however, take a few interesting forms like “Do you still love me?” or "Have you ever thought about the future?"

When she says: "Be a man"

Ouch! Nothing can be quite as painful as having your very manhood questioned. So you can either quietly swallow her insult or hit back by saying "How about you be a woman and quit nagging?

When she says: "My parents would like to meet you"?

This just means one thing. You are about to have every inch of your life scrutinised by her parents. Well, if you have been seeing her for so long that her parents have shown an interest to meet up with you, just hope for the best.

When she says: "I have a headache"

It’s a polite way of telling you that you won’t be getting any action tonight. But you can easily beat her to it. So if you are really looking for some between-the-sheets session and she looks disinterested or tired, just offer her a crocin. If she says, "But I don't have a headache," give her a grin and do your thing.

When she says: "What are you thinking about ?"

Women can often act really pesky and curious. They want to read your mind and know exactly what you are thinking about every second of the day. So if you were indeed thinking of the hot chick next door, or replaying the hot Jenna Jameson flick that you saw last night, just look intelligent and tell her something smart.

When she says: "Do you think she’s pretty?"

She already caught you staring at the hottie that just passed you by, no matter how covert your glance was. If you lie and say no, she will catch you and an argument would ensue. So just be artful and imaginative. Say something like “Not
really, her ass is so huge”

When she says: "Do you notice anything different about me?"

Well, as long as she hasn’t undergone a boob job or coloured her hair red, chances are you will fail to notice any changes. And the longer you take to answer, the more frustrated she'll become. This will make you more frenzied to dig out the difference. And when you finally bellow, "Yes, of
course, you got a new haircut!" she will fling her tiny earrings on the ground, stomp out of theroom and won’t speak to your for the next several days.

When she says: "Do you know what’s the date today?"

Holy hell, you have managed to forget a date that she considers to be important. Whether it washer birthday, or your anniversary or the date ofyour first date or the day you two first met, these are dates that remains permanently etched in a girl’s memory. Since there is absolutely no way
out of this, it is better you memorise all these dates or at least mark them in your digital calendar.

When she says: "My friend is getting engaged / married"

She seems happy, sounds happy and everything’s seems blissfully normal when you suddenly catch a thinly veiled hint of disappointment in her voice. Its then you realise that she’s is trying to hint at her relationship with you which she feels is
stagnating. She expects a commitment and wants it fast.

When she says: "I am pregnant"

Well, with all the contraceptives around, if you still got her pregnant then you should go ahead and do the right thing… shoot yourself in the head. While no man likes to hear any of the aforementioned phrases, every man will, at some point, endure them. The best you can do is be prepared.

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Calling Her for the First Time

Has this ever happened to you? You finally gathered the courage and asked you secret crush for her number, and tried calling her up the moment the next attack of bravado overtook you. But the moment you started dialling her number you freaked out and hung up. Or you did work up the nerve to call her up, got her on the phone, had a nice friendly conversation, but when the time came to ask her out, you froze up because you didn't know what to say? Hey don’t worry. Such things happen to the best of players (perhaps not the best). But there are several ways of making sure that you are able to ace the first phone call and get her to go out with you.
buzz her in the evening
Like the rest of us, she too has a life and a job. So calling her up in the morning or evening when she’s in her office slogging her ass off is not a good idea. Call her after eight when you can safely assume that she is back from office and before ten, so that you don’t interrupt her dinner. If she sounds busy or rushed ask her if you have caught her at the wrong time. If she says she’s busy, don’t ask her to call back, but instead ask when it would be better time to reach her.
call her from a place where you are comfortable
Make sure that when you call her you are feeling relaxed and comfortable. If there are other people in the room or there is loud music playing in the background, avoid making that call. Other people prying on your private conversation will only make you uncomfortable.
sound good
Women like their men to sound cool and
confident. So if you hate the way your voice sounds in the answering machine try training it to make it sound deeper and more resonant. Hum a tune with your mouth closed. This little trick is often used by public speakers to make their voice deeper and more sonorous.
call her while standing up.
When you stand up and talk you will notice that your voice will immediately sound deeper and thus more confident. Talk slowly and take your time with your words. You must have noticed that people who are nervous have a habit of talking really fast. If you feel that your mind will go blank the moment she picks up the phone, write out what you plan to say and read it to yourself a couple of times. If it sounds good to you then chances are that they would sound equally good to her as well.
engage in good small talk
Obviously before you get to the all important question It's but natural that you would make a bit of small talk. But steer clear of questions that border on the yawn-kingdom like the weather and politics. Avoid talking too much about yourself, and engage her in an interesting conversation by bringing up topics that are
relevant. TALK ABOUT HER. Girls love talk about themselves.
make her laugh
Humour is a quality that has always worked beautifully with girls. Try to drop a few jokes during the conversation to let her know that you have a sense of humour. But please try and use contextual humour and nothing that you got from the Santa-Banta website.
propose a specific date
Make sure exactly where you plan to take her, before you call. So be specific about a particular location and tell her exactly where you plan to take her. So be very clear about your plans. This would go to show the amount of thought you have put into making the plans, which will make it that much harder for her to say no.
hang up once you’ve secured the date
Don't feel obliged to extend the conversation once she has agreed to go out with you. The objective of the first phone call has been met so hang up a few minutes after she has given her consent. The less time you chat, the smaller the window to blurt out something stupid.
don't fall into the friendship trap
You probably have a lot of friends and don’t need any more. So be crystal clear about your intentions. You are interested in this woman romantically. So make sure she gets to know it. But if she just wants to hang out as friends, don’t start wailing over the phone and take up on her offer. If its meant to work out it will, so don’t spoil your chances by refusing to be her friend. Remember you are already through with the hard part – you have already got her number. Getting the courage to dial her number is really not half as difficult as getting the number because she is already expecting a call from you. So once you get her on the receiver’s end just follow these 8 great tips and bowl her with your natural charm.

Friday, February 28, 2014

First Date Conversation Tips

If you don’t know much about your date, having a nice friendly chatter over coffee won’t be an easy task. What you would ideally like to do is to keep the conversation jitter free. You would like to make the conversation smooth and interesting and steer clear of that awkward
l silence where your nervous urge to fill those gaps makes you blurt out something really stupid. Here are a few suggestions to get over first date jitters:
What she likes to do for fun
Well you should definitely ask her these questions if you plan to take her out again. Ask her what she likes to do on weekends. Whether she prefers watching movies, dancing, long drives or smoking hookahs in a lounge pub. If you can actually get her turned on about trying out something novel and interesting you can bet that she will start looking towards going for the next date.
Her friends & family
Though a number of dating gurus advise men against asking their date about her family and friends, it actually works quite well in the Indian scenario. Most girls will happily chatter on for hours about how their little brothers and sisters are a complete nuisance or how strict those dads are. All you would need to do is smile, nod and look interested.
TV shows
Given a chance we would all turn into couch potatoes, and since you can safely assume that you date is reasonably interested in TV, ask her about her favourite shows. Since reality TV is replacing sitcoms and Saas-Bahu stuff, make jokes about how ten fat asses were encouraged to sweat out and lose weight and the biggest looser actually walked away with fifty lakhs. Make it interesting but don't talk as if TV is the centre of your existence.
Current events
If your girl seems to be the intellectual type you can dazzle her with your knowledge about what’s happening around the globe. But keep the discussions light and friendly. If she has strong opinions about  something hear her out, and don’t switch over to the debating mode. If, however, your life seems to revolve around work, sports and porn, be sure to read a lot of women’s magazines before going for the date.
What she likes in men
This is a golden opportunity of finding out about the kind of men she likes to be with. Does she prefer security or adventure? Does she fall for the boy- next- door type or gets turned on by tall muscular hunks with six packs.
Future plans
She'll love to have you ask her future plans, her goals and aspirations. Ask her about her career plans, where she'd like to live, who she'd like to emulate, and how she plans on making it all happen.
Vacation and holiday destinations
We all love the idea of travelling and visiting those exotic locations. Experiencing a different place, trying out new cuisines, shopping for knickknacks and partying out all night – sharing vacation experiences truly makes for great conversation. It’s a virtual goldmine if you want to get talking or enthral her with your adventures.
Past dates
It would actually be best to avoid saying
anything about past relationships and girlfriends or asking her about her previous boyfriends. However, sharing ) funny date stories can easily fill up a couple of hours if you are a decent story
teller. If you don’t have anything to share just make up a few funny ones. Also get her to share a few of her own; this may actually give you some vital hints regarding her tastes in men.
To make your first date perfect and memorable
Be sure to keep the conversation focussed on her. Let it flow naturally, and you just might have the most memorable first date in history.

Never Say These Things To A Woman

Relationships are tricky, because they have unwritten rules that nobody discusses but everyone is expected to know of. Truth be told, all the rules in dating are unwritten, but there are certain rules that are so obvious they need not be explained. Sadly however, we’re here to break down 5 of those rules because some guys are just plain ignorant. Here are things that you should never say to a woman unless you want to deal with a scorned woman.
1) You Look Like…
No. Stop. Don’t even complete that sentence. Don’t ever make the fatal mistake of comparing her with someone else. Chances are you would compare her to someone who she completely despises. Let her be the only referral point of your attraction scale. At least out loud, if you tend to think otherwise.
2) You Look Fine
What’s worse than saying you look like (insert any random hot girl)? It’s saying you look fine. Fine? What the hell does that even mean? Telling a woman she looks fine is like telling her she’s sweet or she’s nice. The dessert that you ate last night was sweet too. Oh, and the grocery store guy is also nice because he gives you free candies. Please do us a favour and never use this sentence ever.
3) You Sound Like My Mother
The only time using this is kind of alright is when you’re hundred percent confident she likes your mother or if you’re just good heartedly giving her a hard time. But even then this is something which will be used against you in a legitimate argument later. So, just scrap any talks of mothers, yours or hers both.
4) Don’t Get So Excited About (Insert hot male celebrity here)
If we love a celebrity, I mean really love a celebrity then just looking at his picture won’t cut in. There is a compulsive need to know everything about him, find every last bit of trivia, videos, interviews while simultaneously discussing about him to everyone we know. And it’s not a choice. We need to, have to do this, so stop asking us to calm down.
5) How Many Men Have You Been With?
Just as she would never ask you about the number of women you’ve been with, you should never ask her about the number of men she has dated or slept with. Why? Because the number doesn't matter, there is nothing to be gained from that knowledge. However, there is a lot to lose, which includes her interest in you too.

Reasons Why Women Fall Out of Love

While women might be stonehearted warriors for the world, when it comes to love they act like mewling kittens. If they don’t get the requisite love and security with their partner, it is potent for them to lose the spark and eventually fall out of it.
1. The Honeymoon is Over
Ask any woman in a relationship and she will tell you with fond remembrance that the initial courtship period was the most exciting period of her relationship. The emotions were new, the sensations were exciting and the world seemed to be coloured in a rainbow palette. A year into the relationship, this so-called honeymoon period expires as couples fall into the familiarity pattern. Women start being taken for granted, and the heat of pursuit stagnates to frigidity, leaving her stifled in the monotony of the relationship.
2. Lack of Appreciation
While a woman might not seek validation from external sources, she reserves a special place for her partner. The amount of attention showered on her at the initial stages makes her feel like a princess, but as the novelty fades away, the princess turns into a common household frog with doleful eyes, seeking the same familiarity as before. Women need to feel the same amount of passion at all times, since their sense of personal security depends on it. When the attention slides, they feel under appreciated and begin questioning their place in the relationship.
3. Lack of Spontaneity
The reason why every woman compares her ‘nth’ year in a relationship with the first couple of months is because the initial courtship period sets standards so high, that it becomes hard for men to match up to them. The spontaneous longings and desires fizzle out for men, who begin treating the bond as habitual routine. This makes women begrudgingly fall into monotony. While men feel content watching games on the couches, women silently slink around in corners, regretting ever letting the relationship get this far.
4. Emotional Disconnect
While men are easily contented with merely having their partners around, even if they don’t find much time to communicate with them, women feel stifled with lack of communication. It is increasingly important to let your partner know how she makes you feel, for her to feel worthy enough to stay. This lack of communication is one of the major reasons why relationships falter after the initial days of romance are over. Women arefragile, when it comes to love and they only vest their feelings in hopes that their partner will be able to shield them from sorrows. When it is the very shield that gradually dissolves, she is left with noother option but to end the relationship and move on.

5 Lies Your Doctor Tells You

When it comes to believing what doctors tell us, most of us don't even check the credentials before considering them as our ultimate saviors. The worst part is: we trust bad advice too. Mostly, they might be giving us correct information, but chances are high that at times, they swear by outdated beliefs. Check out for these five things that your doc says, which you often end up believing blindly.
Red Meat & Cheese Up Your Cholesterol
Don't depend on your "family doctor" to give you nutrition advice too. Chances are, he has never known the goodness of meat and considers anything cheese-like to be fattening. The idea is to know what quantity is good (or bad) for you. Giving up eating red meat and cheese won't do any good to your cholesterol levels. See a nutritionist or a dietician and get the real picture.
Saying You Have A Deadly Disease
There are only very few doctors who can differentiate between a kinnow and an orange exactly. Well, similarly when your GP claims you might be suffering from a certain fatal disease, question him twice. Studies have proven that nearly half of the doctors diagnose wrong at least once or twice in a month. Not that you should overwrite your doc's diagnosis completely, but getting a second opinion never harmed anyone.
Checking The Symptoms Online Is Stupid
In this day and age, would you really believe someone who says Internet is stupid? A lot of physicians believe that online diagnoses can prove to be causing a lot of misunderstanding and misinformation, and hence, might suggest you against it. As long as you are reading from proper sources and not some amateur blog, you are god to go. It is rather helpful to go informed to your doctor.
That Lump May Be Actually Nothing
Well, the moment you hear words such as lump, patch on the X-Ray or a mole, do not think of letting them be. They can very well be the code word for cancer and might turn out something malignant. Ask your doctor to get it checked even if he is sure of it being nothing to worry about. If need be, change your doctor.
These Tests Are Very Essential
Are they? Ask him the exact reason as to why you should get all those tests done. Precautionary tests are good, but most times, they are avoidable. Lab tests are not only expensive and time-consuming, but they are also unnerving for the patient. As long as it is some usual blood test, it is fine. According to research, thousands of men are made to undergo needless biopsies every year.

Surprising Ways to Prevent Cancer

The six lettered word ‘cancer’ often sends a chill down everyone’s spines. People are scared of this disease as it doesn’t have a definitive cure. Cancer harms the body when damaged cells divide uncontrollably to form lumps or masses of tissue called tumors. Tumors can grow and interfere with the digestive, nervous and circulatory systems and they can release hormones that alter body function. It is better to try and prevent this disease by making a few simple changes in our day-to-day lives. Try these novel strategies and your risk of cancer could dwindle even more.
Eight Glass Rule
Drinking plenty of water and other liquids may reduce the risk of bladder cancer by diluting the concentration of cancer-causing agents in urine and helping to flush them through the bladder faster. People with low fluid intake (less than 2.4 liters per day) are more likely to develop urinary tract cancers (including prostate, bladder, kidney, and testicular cancer) than those who are better hydrated. Drink at least 8 glasses of water every day to lead a happy and cancer-free life.
Add Garlic To Your Food
Garlic will not only add taste and flavor to your food but also reduce the risk of cancer. Protective effects from garlic may arise from its antibacterial properties or from its ability to block the formation of cancer-causing substances, halt the activation of cancer-causing substances, enhance DNA repair, reduce cell proliferation, or induce cell death. Studies suggest that garlic can reduce stomach cancer by as much as a factor of 12.
Limit Cell Phone Usage
Use cell phones with an earpiece and
speakerphone so the phone itself is not held up against your head and the radio frequency energy it emits stays away from your head. It should be used only for short calls or texts. The point is more to preempt any risk than to protect against a proven danger. If you get pain in your head on a daily basis, if you use your phone on a daily basis — your risk of brain cancer is escalating day by day. Once you get a brain cancer diagnosis, you will wish you had taken some precautions for protection. So, don’t delay and limit your cell phone usage from now itself.
Choose Your Outdoor Outfit Wisely
Certain colors like blue and red offer significantly better protection against the sun's ultraviolet rays than white and yellow ones. Thus, choosing the right outfit may help protect you against skin cancer. Long-sleeved shirts and long pants, dark colors and tightly woven fabric protect the skin from ultraviolet rays. Don't forget to put on a hat as it protects areas often exposed to intense sun, such as the ears, eyes, forehead, nose, and scalp. Though tumor can appear anywhere on the body, it's more common in areas the sun hits.
Coat Barbecue Food With A Thick Sauce
The blackened areas on charred and grilled flesh foods (meat, poultry and fish) are a source of carcinogenic chemicals. These chemical directly damage DNA, our genetic material, and initiate mutations that can lead to the development of cancer. But coating the meat with a thick marinade and thereby preventing direct contact with the charring flames reduces the amount of such chemicals created. Antioxidant herbs like rosemary and sage should be used as flavorings for your food prior to grilling as they add a punch of zest and aroma and reduce the cancer causing substances. You can also precook your meat inthe oven and then throw it on the grill to reduce the risk of cancer. Imbibing these small and simple preventive strategies in your daily lifestyle will help you stay away from the evil of cancer and lead a happy life. After all, prevention is better than cure.

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Signs She is Flirting With You

The subtle signs a girl shows when she tries to flirt with you may get hard to recognize. I am sure you would love to have a girl flirt with you, but chances are that quite a few may have already done it and have given up when they are:

She keeps glancing at you
Does she always look at you the second your head (inadvertently) turns towards her, and then averts her gaze when you catch her staring? Well she might be shy and may take some prompting but this one is definitely a catch. So just go up to her, introduce yourself, and get her talking.

She smiles at you
The smile is often the biggest sign of openness and friendliness, provided it is genuine. If there’s a sparkle in her eyes and she shows her teeth then you can safely deduce that she is really enjoying your company.

She plays with her hair
Those gorgeous locks are a woman’s chief source of power and confidence. So if you see her twirling her finger through her hair or shifting it from side to side or throwing it around, like in a shampoo commercial, then beware there is potential flirt trying to entrance you with her beauty.

She initiates the conversation
If she takes the first step to start a conversation then it’s a pretty obvious sign that she’s into you. During the conversation, if she asks you questions whose answers will lead you to share details of your love life then you can be sure that she has a purpose. So respond in kind. Make your answers flirtatious and make it obvious that you are willing to play the game.

She laughs at your jokes
Does she make it a point to bare her teeth even at your feeblest attempts at humour? A major part of flirting is about reacting favourably to the partner. So if she acts as if she’s captivated by your words, you have definitely scored a sixer. Other obvious reactions that convey approval and interest include asking "really?", "wow" and opening her mouth in a big O in amused disbelief.

She asks if you like doing certain things
If she asks you about your hobbies or if you enjoy doing certain something during your pastime, then she is probably trying to ask you out without spelling it out for you. If the activity in question has to do with venturing out of the house like going dancing, movies or dinner, then it is almost certain.

She makes sexual innuendoes
Some women enjoy getting themselves in that mood by talking about things that will get them in that sexual/romantic mood. So if she steers the conversation to topics that are sexy, you too should be prepared to overtly flirt your sexual/romantic side by mentioning a few feminine qualities that turn you on. Just mention the ones that she feels she has. Like, if she has long hair make it a point to mention that you like women with long hair. Get the point!

She actually touches you
When the girl in question is properly encouraged she can definitely be pushed to break the touch barrier which is a sure shot sign that she’s really interested. No its not just ideal flirting. It can be as obvious as touching your arm or knee while making a point, or subtly grazing her arms against yours while walking. Just keep a count of how many times and how frequently she does it. But don’t respond till its not as obvious as slipping her fingers into yours. There’s always a chance that some of these above signals could just be gestures of friendliness on a woman's part. So to be absolutely sure you should count at least four signs before you can safely allow yourself to conclude that she’s indeed flirting with you. If there’s any more then you are gonna be pretty busy during the weekends.